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Hi Reader,

I’m going to keep this short and sweet because it’s the last month of 2024 and you and I both have things to do to wrap up the year.

For me, that means finding all of Santa's gifts, finding the room in my luggage to hide and transport said presents, and fly across the US to be with loved ones.

For you, maybe it's chasing down end of year school to-dos or curling up on the couch and leaving on the Hallmark Channel (Cheesy holiday movies anyone? Anyone?)

Anyway…today I just wanted to drop a line and say hello. And share the podcast WHAT SELF CARE LOOKS LIKE... with you.

Brittany Elliot is a great interviewer who is hosting honest, nuanced conversations about motherhood.

She isn't about pretty bath bombs, instead she is asking us: are we living in alignment with our values?! I can't imagine a more timely and important conversation during the busy holiday season.

In this episode we discuss:

  • my choice to be child-free for many years,
  • my ambivalence about becoming a mother, and
  • how all of this changed the way I look at and make my art.

I’m not sure if you have time to listen, but I hope you make some. I like to listen while I go on early morning walks, or squeeze it in while driving and doing doing the dishes.

Have a great week Reader.

Monthly Art Drawing Winner

Purely by being on this email list you can win a one-of-a-kind print in a weekly drawing. To simplify, I'm now hosting it monthly and announcing it right here.... our December winner is...drum roll please...

***Your email begins with TURNER***

Please reply here with your snail mail address for me to send you a one-of-a-kind print from my Anonymous Woman series!

Until next month,


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Artist Carrie Brummer

Carrie is a visual artist and art educator, and has had work displayed in short term exhibitions at The Smithsonian and The Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts. Her artist practice is about highlighting and addressing gender norms, perfectionism and being a primary caregiver. She is a new(ish) Mom to a strong, smart 4-year old, a furmom to a doodle that’s more muppet than dog, and currently lives in Houston, Texas after 13 years in the Middle East and Canada. When she’s not playing board games with her hubby, she’s baking, reading, and making her own art.

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