Do you give yourself grace?


Hi there Reader

Some good news! The Primary Caregiver Project is getting some press.

A podcast, called Geriatric Mamas mentions the inspiration for this project at the 19 minute mark. Take a listen here.

(Did you know any woman who gives birth after the age of 35 is considered a geriatric mama?! The more you know...)

This week a community member shared the following:

And I thought to myself: how good am I, really, about giving myself grace? If I'm honest, I feel like I have to be "on" all the time. And I feel like I'm failing because I don't want to be "on" all the time. Oh, the absolutely unreasonable expectations we place upon ourselves...

Here's to all you caregivers out there striving to do all the things, tired AF, and doing your best. May we feel comfort in knowing we aren't alone, and we are all doing this together.

Warmly,


Carrie Brummer

Artist and Curator of The Primary Caregiver Project


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Artist Carrie Brummer

Carrie is a visual artist and art educator, and has had work displayed in short term exhibitions at The Smithsonian and The Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts. Her artist practice is about highlighting and addressing gender norms, perfectionism and being a primary caregiver. She is a new(ish) Mom to a strong, smart 4-year old, a furmom to a doodle that’s more muppet than dog, and currently lives in Houston, Texas after 13 years in the Middle East and Canada. When she’s not playing board games with her hubby, she’s baking, reading, and making her own art.

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